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| My hasband Amerik |
Seva
Englishtown |
Moi myz obmanul menya v svoem vozroste obeshal Gori teper zivy s tarakanami i s uma vizivshim starikom
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Vesta
New York |
Response for: Seva at 5/19/2004 9:03:00 AM
>> мыз обманул меныа в своем возросте обешал Гори тепер зивы с тар
>>аканами и с ума визившим стариком
Когда вы приеxали и увидели этого старика, зачем же Вы выxодили за него замуж? Нужно было уеxать обратно.
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Seva
Englishtown |
Response for: Vesta at 5/19/2004 9:50:00 AM
Vse eto stalo vihodit tolko seishas On menya obmanul On krishit / Ya poteryala rabotu ostavila moi rebenok ne zakonshil shkolu / Ya ne znau shto delat
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Nik
NY |
Response for: Seva at 5/19/2004 10:27:00 AM
Ну и езжай домой, или он тебя к батарее наручниками приковал?
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Iv
Tucson |
Response for: Seva at 5/19/2004 10:27:00 AM
Mozhno sformulirovat', v chem imenno obman? - ran'she tarakaniy pryatalis', a teper' sobralis' i viyshli na tropu voiniy? Ili on vdrug neozhidanno i rezko sostarilsya ? Faktiy pozhaluista.
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Helen
USA |
Response for: Seva at 5/19/2004 10:27:00 AM
Seva, вы не отчаивайтесь! Если вам нужен совет, напишите поподробнее о вашей ситуации. А то у вас одни эмоции.
Хотя, почитав внимательно форум, приходишь к мысли, что ничего вы сделать с мужем не сможете. Он вас бил(или вашего ребенка)? Он оказался наркоманом или психически больным(нужны подтверждения) человеком?
А так просто сказать "обманул", это ничего не сказать.
Тысячи наших женщин плавают тут в океане обманутых надежд, НО
одни трудяги и выплывают, а другие только ноют и идут на дно.
И еще. Все зависит от того ЧТО вы хотите. Если вы хотите жить в Америке и чего-то добиться, то живите и добивайтесь. А если вы хотите на всё готовенькое, то поезжайте лучше домой. Без обид :-)
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Катя
Тампа |
Response for: Helen at 5/20/2004 1:28:00 PM
Pravilno, vse v vashi rukah. Esli ochen zahotet mozhno v kosmos uletet. A po serioznomu. Esli postavit pered soboi cel i rabotat v ee dostizhenie vse mozhet poluchitsya, uidet vremya i mnogo truda, glavnoe ne upuskat ruk!
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Tanya И
USA |
Response for: Nik at 5/19/2004 12:58:00 PM
Nik, злой вы и неконструктивный!! Как не пост, так какая-нибудь гадость сквозит сквозь строчки.
У вас времени хватает только зло свое изливать, а на знания по-видимому не хватает.
Нечего сказать, так уж промолчите. Человек, просящий помощи на форуме, растерян, испуган- в стрессе, одним словом... а вы тут как тут со своим злопыхательством. Нет, чтоб что-то умное посоветовать.
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mechta
albany |
Response for: Seva at 5/19/2004 9:03:00 AM
Ты не одна в такой ситуации! Почитай форумы и такое увидишь!!!! Я живу здесь 2 года. У меня такая же ситуация... увы... Скажи тебе здесь нравиться? если да,набирайся терпения и жди документы... Не теряй время-учи язык, получай профессию, работай. Отлаживай денег, хоть понемногу. Поверь -будет на "нашей улице праздник" . Совет по моральному состоянию- забудь,что он негодяй и относись к нему как к больному. Знаю это трудно и почти невыносимо. Ну выбор сделан и только время и терпении изменит ситуацию. Здесь есть нормальные мужики и потом,если захочешь,выйдешь замуж... " и думать будем о"потом" а не о том,что было"... Если хочешь и можешь позвони мне 802-558-1832. Я такая же дипрессивная но еще живая и мечтающая...
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Lena
Englishtown |
Response for: mechta at 5/20/2004 9:27:00 PM
Spasibo za podderzku ! Ya ne dumala shto est kto menya poimet!!!!!!!!Ya starayus krepitsya Ved u menya rebenok / I materya menya poimut/
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Able To
New York City |
Response for: Seva at 5/19/2004 9:03:00 AM
>> myz obmanul menya v svoem vozroste obeshal Gori teper zivy s tar
>>akanami i s uma vizivshim starikom
I have married the Russian woman 31 years younger than myself. At first very difficult,..much crying and anger. Nothing I did pleased her. We learned to communicate and work together to solve our problems and make life better for ourselves. We also have baby now and very happy family situation. It seems you loved this man before he told you his age;age is in mind of beholder. And also you must have found him attractive? Why would you marry him otherwise? And if he has problem with home with some insect infestation just ask him to call exterminator to eliminate problem. You have child;how is this man with children? Does he try to show concern for you and child? It is major change to come to a new country;the man must love you very much to bring you here and a child also! It is change for him also in his life and he needs your understanding and cooperation to make a home life with you. If you complain only and bring up his mistakes;how to you expect him to want to do things for you? Life is two way street; work with him and he will see this and be person you knew and loved before. I have learned that the successful marriage consist of two people working together and being understanding. You can work with him or just feel sorry for yourself and end up with nothing. In time I am sure you will realize this important fact of life.
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Vlada
nowhere |
Response for: Able To at 6/3/2004 11:36:00 AM
>>>> myz obmanul menya v svoem vozroste obeshal Gori teper zivy s t
>>ar
>>>>akanami i s uma vizivshim starikom
>>I have married the Russ
>>ian woman 31 years younger than myself. At first very difficult,.
>>.much crying and anger. Nothing I did pleased her. We learned to
>>communicate and work together to solve our problems and make life
>> better for ourselves. We also have baby now and very happy famil
>>y situation. It seems you loved this man before he told you his a
>>ge;age is in mind of beholder. And also you must have found him a
>>ttractive? Why would you marry him otherwise? And if he has probl
>>em with home with some insect infestation just ask him to call ex
>>terminator to eliminate problem. You have child;how is this man w
>>ith children? Does he try to show concern for you and child? It i
>>s major change to come to a new country;the man must love you ver
>>y much to bring you here and a child also! It is change for him a
>>lso in his life and he needs your understanding and cooperation t
>>o make a home life with you. If you complain only and bring up hi
>>s mistakes;how to you expect him to want to do things for you? Li
>>fe is two way street; work with him and he will see this and be p
>>erson you knew and loved before. I have learned that the successf
>>ul marriage consist of two people working together and being unde
>>rstanding. You can work with him or just feel sorry for yourself
>>and end up with nothing. In time I am sure you will realize this
>>important fact of life.
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Well said!!! But a bit naive.
Love over Internet and every day living under the same roof are totally different things.
Does this gyu really need someone to tell him to address the insect problem?
Looks like he is pretty comfortable as it is.
Do you know how many old psychos in the US trying to confuse young girls, bring them over, and have fun for two weeks?
After the fun is over those girls get literally thrown out on the street, or become hostages of a husband-lunatic and Immigration.
The strong ones try to fight, the weak ones slide down the slope to make any money to survive.
If you add to it no knowledge of language, laws, customs and full dependacy of so called husbands, the picture will not be pretty at all.
And our poor Russian girls go for it hoping to get a better life for themselves and their children.
What a dissapointment!!!
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lana
union city |
Response for: Seva at 5/19/2004 9:03:00 AM
chego ty tak v depressiyu vpadaesh'? ya tozhe iz NJ. nash shtat ne kakoi nibud' otstalyi mozhno naiti rabotu. dazhe ne znaya yazyka . russkih vezde tut nakopat' mozhno. magaziny, offisy, apteki. prosto kupi dlya nachala gazetu russkuyu ili na i-nete poishi. hochesh' napishi na e-mail lana_go@inbox.ru . chem mogu pomogu. ya tozhe zamuzhem za american, i ne vse tak legko no ya ne otchaivayus'.
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Andre Sobolevsky
New York City |
Response for: Seva at 5/19/2004 9:03:00 AM
Dear Seva,
You have to make some decisions. Like, do you want to stay here in the US? And if so, will you husband come with you tothe interview. If the answers are yes, then consider some of the advise here and be patient until you get a green card and then you can get a divorce. If you husband is indeed a senile old crook who drives you crazy and causes you sever emotional harm, consider filing an abused spouse petition (I-360) which, if succesfull, can give you a green card without relying on your husband. Good luck.
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flash
someplace |
Response for: Andre Sobolevsky at 6/13/2004 8:52:00 PM
I am her husband. She posted this when mad at me. I could state her faults,but I won't. I am not senile,nor an old crook. I don't abuse women or hit them or curse them. I could have brought many women here (that think I still look pretty damn good). I did not bring her and child here to give them Disney World,but a family life;
Most of the advise given here is worthless anti-guy junk. It takes 2 to make something work;-I am willing and trying. But I don't like being made into some fool for someone to get a green card and giving someone stupid advise to abuse the system is criminal. Anyways,we do love each other and can and will work it out.....
when I understand her moods better I believe............
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Katya
Tampa |
Response for: flash at 6/14/2004 10:37:00 AM
Govorite po russki? :-)))
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vlada
who cares |
Response for: flash at 6/14/2004 10:37:00 AM
>>I am her husband. She posted this when mad at me. I could state h
>>er faults,but I won't. I am not senile,nor an old crook. I do
>>n't abuse women or hit them or curse them. I could have broug
>>ht many women here (that think I still look pretty damn good). I
>>did not bring her and child here to give them Disney World,but a
>>family life;
>>Most of the advise given here is worthless anti-guy
>> junk. It takes 2 to make something work;-I am willing and trying
>>. But I don't like being made into some fool for someone to g
>>et a green card and giving someone stupid advise to abuse the sys
>>tem is criminal. Anyways,we do love each other and can and will w
>>ork it out.....
>>when I understand her moods better I believe....
>>........
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Well, try harder!!!
If you think that you and your wife are equal in this situation, think again.
She is all alone here, and depends on you with her life.
Let alone the fact that she just switched the country and trying to understand your far from Disney World mentality.
YOU are her sole back bone now. And if you fail to provide her with all emotional support she needs then all your love talking is total Bull....
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